To Love or To Be Loved

"Love or be Loved" by C.T.Chiang

The question alway raise in our personal mind to ask ourselves which is better with or without person to love you? I saw a film on star movie channel last night, the movie named "Turn Left Turn Right ", it decribes the subtle linkage between two lovers, they are looking for each other in many scenes, but the one always pass by the other by accident. Luckily, with faith, they finally find each other in the end of movie. The movie is full of romantic affections for the people who identifies with the two lovers in the story.

Like Wislawa Szymborska's poem-"Love at First Sight" , which repeatly cited in the movie.
[They're both convinced that a sudden passion joined them.
Such certainty is beautiful,
but uncertainty is more beautiful still. ]

The movie just shows the one of the possible denouements, it rarely happen in the real world, like the Disneyland in our childhood, it propose the lost angle of our hearts. In my opinion, I think we like a gambler in our feeling, we will intend to insist on whom you want, if we afford to lose who we are given. Otherwise, we will make a compromise between them, and we will choose the one we like more than the others around us. If we make a compromise, what is love or being love should't matter anything in our life, because we have left from the Las Vegas of our feeling already.